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In an adult server we joined the conversation came up about how it's hard to handle kids who get stuck in the front and someone suggested we make a guide on what others can do to help. Recently on Discord some things happened and it got me wondering how useful a "Someone is being an idiot in the front" guide would be. Since Discord is the right mix of overstimulating and emotion inducing that it can be an issue where someone in our system is stuck in the front acting like an idiot.The first issue though is that the best thing to do would be to ask specific headmates to front and we've noticed not everyone is comfortable doing that. We genuinely don't mind it in any context most of the time. It would help if someone is shutdown in the front to see a message like "Get Rex to front" or "Get Bobby to front" so we can actually de-escalate and help them calm down.
The other issue is I don't want us to be seen as pretentious or anything like that.
